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Terms of the Duel

New-Year's resolutions have a pronounced and infamous tendency to fall by the wayside by, say, the 1st of February. Perhaps, however, that is because they are resolved upon, adhered to, and discarded, by solitary individuals. Perhaps what's needed is some good old-fashioned competitive spirit.

The participants:

  1. Ilya Gandelman - desk jockey from 9-5:30, Monday thru Friday. Free time activities include, but are not limited to, writing, reading, watching tv/movies (very selective in this area!), eating Meredith's delicious food, playing with Gizmo, spending time with family and friends.
  2. Meredith Gandelman - also a desk jockey, from 9-6, Monday thru Friday. Free time activities include, but are not limited to, reading, watching tv/movies, cooking/baking for Ilya (and others), snuggling/playing with Gizmo and spending time with family and friends.

The resolutions:

  1. To read more books
  2. To watch less television
  3. To spend less money (by reading library books, and by making our way through unread volumes gathering dust on the shelves)
  4. To spend more quality time together with a shared interest

Therefore, the challenge proposed: who can read the most books in a year? On one side the wife, on the other the husband: who'll get the most volumes under her or his belt before 2015?

The rules:

  1. Books will be chosen independently. Any genre or subject is eligible.
  2. No second thoughts once starting a book. An uncompleted book is not counted, except of course as time lost. We shall have to choose carefully; and if a book seems to be disappointing, best to soldier on through to the end!
  3. A 300-page minimum. However, books briefer than 300 pages may be combined with others to count as one entry in the Duel.

Monday, January 20, 2014

The show must go on

Pages read today: 353 for Meredith (297 of PS, I Love You, 56 of Running with Scissors), 157 for Ilya (107 of What Maisie Knew, 50 of Flowers for Algernon)

Day off from work, feeling pummeled by some kind of sinus/cold thing, what's a girl to do?  Read, of course!  Read lots!  So that's exactly what I did.  I snuggled up with the animals and had a nice relaxing day of reading (I just love these little fuzz-buckets!).   

PS, I Love You is now complete and has become a favorite in the chick-lit category for me.  Be warned...spoilers lie ahead!  The basic premise is a bit cliche, I suppose... woman dealing with her grief after her husband's death.   However the presentation was done in a way that made it feel unique.  I was instantly drawn into the main character Holly's world and felt everything right along with her.  Essentially, her husband Gerry had a brain tumor and died at 30 years old, which devastated her world.  They had been together since high school, and as is pointed out on several occasions, Holly's life had revolved around Gerry and her marriage, so when he died she found is incredibly difficult to figure out a life on her own.  i.e. "When he was alive she'd lived for him, and now that he was gone she lived for his messages."  These messages being notes he had written and placed inside envelopes for each month left in the year he died (apparently knowing at a point that he wouldn't make it past March).  The messages are usually instructing her in some way to do something that will help her move on with her independent life and work through .  It's very emotional, these notes...in a sense they are what leads her through working out her grief and finding her way on her own.  At the same time, in some ways they prolong her grief, as she sees Gerry in these messages, as if he's still there with her (so rather than just ripping the bandaid and having to come to terms with him really being gone, in a sense he continues to be with her for another 10 months).  Ultimately, though, she finds a way in which to live her life without him, while always having a place for the memories of him and their life together within her.  Sounds sappy, I'm sure, because it is sappy.  There are also a couple of the usual unrealistic and/or cliche moments that remind you you're reading fiction/chick-lit (for example, you know how easy it always is for everyone to just decide on and get their dream job regardless of experience/skill), but nothing even remotely on par with My Sister's Keeper, and the writing here was far superior and compelling and the characters much easier to relate and empathize withPS, I Love You did that brilliantly.  I recommend it for anyone who enjoys chick-lit.  Just beware, as it's a very sad story and you should be in an emotionally ok place in your life before reading it.  Also, it's vastly different than the movie (though for me this was kind of a good thing...while I did cry at several parts of the book, it in no way compared to the nonstop cry-fest that occurs whenever I see the movie!).  Not better or worse, really...just different.  
I guess for me, my enjoyment of a book largely comes down to whether or not I truly feel "in it."  If I can feel along with the character, and believe in what is going on (at least for the most part), then the experience is much more enjoyable for me.  Of course there can be some over-the-top moments (I mean that's part of what reading fiction is about, right?  to escape the reality of everyday life), they just need to be immersed within an overall story that feels relatable.  

Next up?  Running With Scissors.  My sister-in-law is currently reading this one as well, though I haven't had a chance to see what she thinks of it so far.  Time to just dive in and find out for myself what it's all about.  

Ilya and I are both still working on our reading for the day, so we will come back to fill in the blanks in this post with our complete page counts before we hit the hay (though as of right now I'm still kicking Ilya's booty!).  For now, it's time to keep turning the pages!

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